Accidental Prophecies

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I really laugh when I read my last post. I meant things were getting real in terms of our adoption feeling more real. But, little did I know the very next day, things would get real in a "life is a struggle" kind of way. The short version is that lots of people were in the hospital for a number of months, and Clay and I faced and are still facing some big decisions that have yet to play out. So, we're in a bit of a limbo in more ways than one; adoption being the number one realm of limbo.

Our home study was completed in August, but it took us some time to get the funding together to be all the way in the matching phase. The great news is that we were awarded a grant and received some very generous donations which allowed us to move forward without pausing our adoption process.  We created a profile book for a birth mother to see. It could be shown tomorrow, six months from now, or a year from now. It all depends on how many people are waiting in front of us and how quickly their adoptions are processed. In the meantime, we have a few more trainings to complete, and to send in some forms periodically...but mostly we're just waiting for an undetermined amount of time.

I've promised updates many times, but I suppose part of my hesitation has been that I just feel like I repeat myself all the time when people ask. Honestly, I don't feel like the news has changed tremendously since August. We've completed a few more tasks and overcome some hurdles to be sure, but it just feels very repetitive. I know every day we're closer and closer. And once we are matched, things are going to happen very quickly. Then, things will get real in a whole new way. 

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